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A sad day for me

Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2017 1:50 pm
by Red Oak
My Grandmother requires more care than we can give and must be admitted to a Care Facility. It was her wish to live in her own home the rest of her life, that wish will probably go unfulfilled.

She is in her 102nd year, and until a few days ago was able to live semi independently with a little assistance from me and Mrs red oak.

That is an unbelievable accomplishment, I know, I only wish she could have made
It longer. :|

Re: A sad day for me

Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2017 1:52 pm
by ralph
i wish you and your Grandmother well RedOak !!

Re: A sad day for me

Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:02 pm
by BigTex
It's a tough but necessary call. We put my mother in assisted living when she was 90. It was no longer possible for her to function in her house unassisted.

Re: A sad day for me

Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2017 3:19 pm
by LibraryLady2
Sorry it came to this. I hope your Grandmother is aware that you are doing it out of love and wanting the best care for her.
It is difficult when they don't realize it.

Re: A sad day for me

Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2017 4:02 pm
by grouchy
Prayers for all of you.

Re: A sad day for me

Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2017 5:45 pm
by RedEye
You have my sincerest sympathies. I know it's hard but sometimes necessary. We had to do this with my mother as she approached 90 also, but we were able to keep her in town and near her friends and family. We also made a point of one of us being there for church services every week.

Re: A sad day for me

Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2017 6:06 pm
by rusty
Sorry to hear Oak.

Re: A sad day for me

Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2017 7:59 pm
by Jami
I know that decision is hard but necessary. :(

Re: A sad day for me

Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2017 9:16 pm
by Red Oak
Well my prayers were answered.

She is in a rapid decline and with some help from visiting Nurses, Hospice Care, and her family I believe she will complete her life's journey in her own home.

I have decided that when I reach the age of 70, I will take up smoking and hang gliding so as to never linger too long. :D

Re: A sad day for me

Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2017 9:39 pm
by Dancer
Red Oak, I have had more than one experience with Hospice Care. My Wife's Mother and later Her Uncle. My Grandmother as well. These Folks are a Special Breed and and will see her through the times ahead as peacefully as possible.

Dancer

Re: A sad day for me

Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2017 11:04 am
by crocmommy
Sorry to hear this. However it is a blessing she can go comfortably in familiar surroundings.

Re: A sad day for me

Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2017 5:57 pm
by grouchy
Sounds like some prayers were answered.